Remind him that you like his mother and dont mind going to her house for dinner once a month, but she should not be coming on all of your activities and dates just because she is lonely or has poor boundaries. Explain that you do not want her out of your lives, but you both need time to connect and grow as a couple.

What do you do when your husband is a mamas boy?

Try expressing to him that putting his marriage first is good for him, too. “You cant happily be both a husband and a mamas boy, because youre always torn in two directions,” says Kirschner. If he accepts your limits and starts putting you first, then be gentle with him as you both determine a new normal together.

How do you live with a mamas boy?

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