No pastor or prophet should tell you who to marry. They are to pray along with you, counsel and guide you using the Word of God. God can use your pastor or a genuine prophet of God to confirm what He had already told you.

What does the Bible say about who you should marry?

Ephesians 5:25: For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her. 9. Genesis 2:24: Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.