Many times, people are ready to start seriously dating anywhere from six months to a year after a major breakup, but it still largely depends on the length of time they spent in the relationship, Alexis Nicole White, an author and relationship expert, tells Bustle.

How long should you wait to start date after a breakup?

If I had to give a time frame, it would be from one to three months after the breakup. However, the time frame still depends on you and if you feel like dating again will be a positive experience or if it will just make you feel like crap and miss your ex.

How do you know if your new relationship is going somewhere?

20 signs your relationship is going nowhere fast (sorry)You never talk about the future. Youre keeping other guys on the back burner. You have lots in common, but no sex life. His parents are divorced. Youre both acting like youre single. You havent made your desires clear. Youve skipped over traditional stepsMore items •17 Jun 2013