First dates are often awkward, but the awkwardness is part of what makes them so exciting, Dr. Jess OReilly, relationship expert and sexologist at Astroglide, tells Bustle. When you feel nervous or unsure, it can heighten your attention and attraction; its part of what makes new love so exciting and passionate.

How do I stop being awkward on a first date?

6 Ways to be Less Awkward on a First DateRemind yourself that it is just a first date. Plan an activity date. Talk about topics you are passionate about. Listen with curiosity. Avoid potentially awkward topics and remember your date is still a stranger. Pump yourself up and remember to relax. About the Author:More items •Jun 8, 2018

What are the causes of embarrassing first date?

including six conversations you dont want to start.Being late. Rudeness to service people. Not asking questions. Unnecessary medical history reveals. Talking about an ex. Poor table manners. Overindulging. Checking your phone.More items •Nov 3, 2015

Is it normal to be nervous on a first date?

Most people get the first date jitters. They get really, really nervous before first dates that they actually dread going on them. Its something normal.

Should you hug or shake hands on a first date?

First date: These greetings are OK In fact, it may be appropriate at the first meeting. The classic handshake is fine, however, if you expect more of the date and have already developed a few feelings, its simply too formal. A good alternative is a hug. Thats ok too.