View of yourself: For many people, losing weight helps them to generally feel better about themselves and to feel more sexually attractive. These more positive self-perceptions can help you to take in the love offered by your partner, as well as to express or assert yourself more in your relationship.

Should I lose weight to find love?

Body Acceptance is a double edged sword On one hand, great for them. If youre one of these people, and you accept and love yourself just as you are, you dont need to lose weight (to find love). But its not about losing weight to make someone else attracted to you, its about losing weight to accept yourself.