One of the biggest reasons why first dates get so awkward is anxiety. According to Ella, theres so much pressure to perform. So in order to ease that anxiety, just take a deep breath. Relax. Silences are fine, he says.

How do I stop being weird on a first date?

6 Ways to be Less Awkward on a First DateRemind yourself that it is just a first date. Plan an activity date. Talk about topics you are passionate about. Listen with curiosity. Avoid potentially awkward topics and remember your date is still a stranger. Pump yourself up and remember to relax. About the Author:More items •Jun 8, 2018

Why do first dates make me so anxious?

“It is completely normal to feel nervous before a first date, and some degree of nerves is actually a good sign, because that means its something that matters to you and its a person you might have the potential to care about and connect with,” Lauren Freier, a Chicago-based psychotherapist, tells Elite Daily.