The speed of someones response will depend on their online dating site habits and their level of interest in a match. So, when communicating with a match its best to wait at least seven to ten days for a response. Failure to respond doesnt necessarily spell a lack of interest.

How long should you wait for a response on a dating site?

One to two weeks is the optimum about of time, according to Quinn, as it gives you time to get to know them, but not too much time that you overthink or the spark fizzles.

How long do people chat before dating?

Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, Logan Ury, tells us that often its better to just take the plunge in the first week of messaging. “Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot.