Bottom line, talk about what is OK and what isnt OK in your relationship, and then you can go from there. If your partner says they didnt realize that sexting someone else wasnt acceptable, and you believe them, then forgiveness might be an option for you.

Should I divorce my husband for sexting?

But sexting is no different than facts or evidence about a typical affair or sexual indiscretions. No-fault divorces exist to prevent needing to find fault as evidence. If youre sexting and your spouse finds out, it may trigger a divorce. It is not necessary that your spouse try to prove adultery to get a divorce.

Is sexting considered infidelity?

“Sexting is impersonal. If a person is sexting someone other than their own partner- without the partners knowledge- it amounts to infidelity. It could create trouble in a relationship, but it is not cheating,” she says.