When online dating, a woman can increase her chance of going on a date with a man who is attractive to her by sending the first message, according to the dating sites findings. Women are 2.5 times more likely to get a response than men if they initiate contact.

Is it OK for a woman to message first?

According to data from Tinder, Only 1.4 percent of women say that women should send the first message compared to 9.8 percent of men who say the same. However, receiving a message from someone youve matched with is likely welcome attention, since you did match with them, after all!

What should a girl message first?

Your first message should make a simple introduction, express your interest in her profile, ask one or two long-game questions about things you share in common, and then simply sign-off with your name. A couple lines, or a paragraph or two is great.