Cheating Is Cheating, Even If Its Online Without actual physical contact, then, intimacy via the internet may not seem like a real affair. However, an online affair is very much like a physical fling, one that can do lasting harm to a relationship or even an entire family.

What is considered cheating in a relationship?

Two things count: any alienation of affection without the partners consent and spending money without the partners consent. So, if you are spending emotional time with someone, particularly at the expense of quality time with your partner and your partner is upset about it, then youre probably cheating.