If a couple goes on one date a week, thats anywhere from 10 to 12 dates before they establish exclusivity, according to the survey. Say, schedules allow a couple to see each other more than once a week, that means it could even take 24 dates before exclusivity.

At what point should you become exclusive with a guy?

“The best way to truly learn about another person is to take the time needed to truly get to know them before making a commitment to them.” And while theres no exact right amount of time, she says you should wait anywhere from one to three months before making the relationship exclusive.

How long before a man makes it official?

As a rough rule, two months should be a safe amount of time to broach the subject. But every relationship is different, so if it feels right earlier, go for it. If it doesnt feel right at that stage, there are a few steps you can take to build yourself up for the conversation.