Even though most people think online dating sucks, people arent going out as much and are less open to in-person interaction. finding love in 2021 is difficult, because weve entered a cultural and technological era thats a complete mess (at least from a dating standpoint).

Why is it so hard to get a date?

This makes dating harder because its common for us to look for whats wrong with someone, instead of focusing on whats right. We expect an intense spark to be there from the start. If its not, we check out and look for someone else, because we feel its easy to meet someone thanks to modern technology.

Is it still possible to find love?

The Youll find love when youre not looking approach may be wrong. Thats like saying, “Youll find a job when youre least looking for it,” said Pepper Schwartz, a relationship expert and sociology professor at the University of Washington. Its possible, but rarely happens.