I have found, as an Aspie among neurotypical folks, that having realistic expectations of others is of critical importance in order to be happy. The higher your expectations are of the people around you, the more likely you are to feel let down by them at some point, even when they havent done anything wrong.

How do I comfort my Aspie?

People with Aspergers may also lack empathy, the ability to understand the feelings of others .4 Ways to Cope When Your Partner Has Aspergers SyndromeCommunicate your needs directly. Do this either verbally or in writing and without emotion. Set clear rules about parenting. Consider therapy. Seek support.26 Mar 2018