On Bumble, yes, women are required to send the first message after a match. But every other app, its up to whoever decides to make the first move. That is, until Tinder launches its new feature that will make it possible for women to chat only with men they message first.

Which dating app do girls message first?

Bumble Today, Bumble serves 35 million users—with women making the first move. On Bumble, only women can message first with their matches, and if theres no response, the message disappears within 24 hours.