The second time around is just as beautiful (if not more so), but it certainly comes tinged with vulnerability and even some fear. Falling in love with someone new can feel more real, because in some ways, there is more at stake than with your first love. Youre more vulnerable this time around.
Is it possible to fall in love second time?
A few even feel that falling in love more than once is quite normal. “Love can happen many times. If you fall in love and the person turns out to be the wrong one for you, you cant force yourself to continue loving him, just because you believe that love only happens once.
What does love feel like the second time?
The second time, you know what you are looking for and what you expect. You feel the butterflies but you tend to hold them back to make sure that the feelings are real. Its more like a controlled experience.
Why is it so hard to fall in love again?
Some people hold onto the bad stuff, and the brain gets locked into the trauma so that moving on and falling in love again is exceedingly difficult. In your case, the difficulty in moving on is that your brain has locked into the love you had. You push the trauma to the background in order to protect yourself.
Why do I not want to get close to anyone?
Behind a fear of intimacy is a fear of facing up to yourself and what you perceive (erroneously) as your weaknesses. We avoid being close to others because they would then see these apparent flaws, which can be feelings of sadness, anger, shame and grief.
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Are relationships worth a second chance?
There has to be more than love. If love is all that is keeping you two together, but you dont have those other aspects, its not worth giving your partner another shot. If you two have a strong foundation that makes for a happy and healthy relationship, then a second chance may be something you want to consider.